Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation

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Motivation can be a four-letter word, especially when you want to do something and you know you should be doing something, but things get in the way.

Chas Hathaway is an author, musician, blogger, and Mormon father of four rambunctious munchkins, all under the age of 7. They are, as Chas calls them, “A Blast.”

He shares his thoughts and talents at his website: Overtones and Ice Cream Cones, The Blathering, Chattering, and Musical Clattering of Author and Musician, Chas Hathaway.

Check out his thoughts about how he stays motivated as a husband, author, musician and dad on his post: Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation.

MDB Spotlight: 3 more posts you don’t want to miss

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This week, MDB featured a post,
called “I’m a Mormon and I Don’t Watch Fox News,” which served as a timely reminder for the need for civility and respect for those who may share your chapel but not your politics. While we’re speaking of Fox News, there’s another MDBer who not only watches it, but is frequently an invited guest on Fox News.

In a recent post, author Jason Wright gives an intriguing description of the five hours that are required to generate a 3-minute interview segment in Behind the Scenes of a Fox News Appearance.


When I visited a new website, called Mormon Explorer, one word popped into my brain: genius. It’s an innovative site that is designed to facilitate connections between Mormon families in their travels throughout the world. The idea for Mormon Explorer began two years ago when Mormon dad Jeff Paul took his family on a 3-week adventure through a number of European countries.

“With two kids (one and three years-old) on a student income (or lack thereof), we had to be creative in how to stretch our budget to be able to experience the best Europe had to offer. We quickly identified our nightly hotel costs as the largest and most manageable expense. We experimented with the different options available; budget hotels, hostels, and staying with friends (some whom we met at church and others through online communities). By far, our most memorable experiences from the trip were the evenings we spent in the homes of strangers, sharing meals and sharing stories.”

Read more about the creation of this site in Mormon Explorer – Uniting Through Travel.


I hope I might be forgiven the self-indulgence of highlighting  Will People Come, Ray?, but it is for a good cause. As a Mormon daddy, I am witnessing one of my daughters who, in addition to working full-time as a Special Ed teacher at a local high school and taking a full load as a Master’s degree candidate at BYU, is doing her best to generate funds for her school’s new Best Buddies chapter.

Best Buddies is an organization that seeks to foster meaningful friendships between kids with special needs and mainstream kids.

My daughter has been doing everything she can to help fill the auditorium for a benefit concert. It will feature a terrific line-up (The Whits and Allred). If any of you are in the Provo area on April 7, I hope you can join us and bring the family. (There’s a $2 discount if enter promotional code “buddy” at the Get Tickets Here box at her online ordering page.)

If you do, please say hello. It would be a pleasure to meet a fellow MDBer.

Erik Orton

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Erik Orton began writing and producing theater while a student at BYU, where he graduated in 1998 with a degree in Arts and Media Music, with a minor in playwriting. He was raised primarily in Germany and the suburbs of Washington D.C.  In addition to producing and directing a number of plays, Erik has also written a number of works, including the musical Berlin.

His blog, simply called Erik Ortoncovers a variety of his musings, all written with a certain style that suggests he could do this writing thing for a living.

Erik and his wife, Emily, live in New York City.

High School Vinyl

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When today’s high schoolers reach middle age, it seems unlikely that they’ll stumble across a box of old mp3s when cleaning out their garage. There’s something to be said for the days of tangible media.

Middle-aged Mormon Man recently came across a box of record albums that is sure to bring a flood of memories, fond and otherwise, for those of us anywhere near middle-age. (How long has it been since you thought about Jonathan Livingston Seagull?)

The post is a charming walk down memory lane, although MMM does get at least one fact wrong: when Olivia was singing “I Honestly Love You,” she wasn’t secretly singing it to him; she was singing it to me.

Visit A Box of Memories: High School Vinyl and ‘fess up how many of these albums you had in your collection.

Dolling it Up

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Cinematographer Rod Santiano has completely overhauled his website and blog, which brought to the surface a bunch of clips worth taking another look at.

One that brought back some fond memories for me was a clip from New York Doll, a documentary Rod largely shot about Arthur “Killer” Kane. I had first seen it in 2005. A bunch of us had just moved to Utah from Southern California to work on a series of children’s movies. In the middle of our first winter here, we piled in a couple of cars and headed up to the Sundance Film Festival, where it was screening.

It was my first trip to the film festival at Sundance. The place was suitably crowded and chaotic, but that helped contribute to the good vibe. I kept my eyes peeled for celebrities, but no luck. Other than Rod, that is.

We crammed inside the makeshift auditorium and watched the movie. I’m not just saying it when I tell you that it blew me away, it was so good. I confess my expectations are a little modest when it comes to being entertained by a documentary. I fully expect to be informed, of course. But thoroughly entertained along the way? Too much to hope for, right?

Wrong. New York Doll delivered on all fronts. I knew next to nothing about the band going in. It’s not exactly my style of music. But the story, centering on Arthur’s journey from glam/rock/punk icon to fallen and long-forgotten down and outer, clearly ravaged by his years of excess, to his conversion to the Church years later, and his eventual reunion with his band, with whom there had been some bad blood, left me speechless. Along the way, for bonus points, it taught me the complete history of rock and roll, as well as a heightened appreciation for the Word of Wisdom.

A sublime story of redemption. Check out this clip, New York Doll, from Rod’s freshly overhauled site.

Live Like You’re Dyin’? Really?

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Live like donuts don't countA recurring theme in pop culture advocates living each day as if it were our last, a beautiful sentiment, inspiring us to leave nothing on the table.

Excellent advice, unless you actually stop to think about it. Which, fortunately for us, Ken Craig does in his recent post.

Hey, Tim McGraw, what are you thinkin’, man? Leave it to this father of 6.75 kids to set us straight.

Before you do anything too hasty today, be sure to read his post, “Carpe What, Now?

Kirby “Le Nez” Heyborne

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KirbyIt’s almost unfair, the number of talents Kirby Heyborne has.

Perhaps most well-known is his talent for acting. He’s starred in roughly 97.3% of the Mormon movies and can be seen in no less than half of the commercials currently airing on television (he’s been falling down that cliff for a credit card company for several months now — poor fellow).

What’s more, he’s gifted in the challenging art of improv comedy. (MormonDaddyBlogs featured his acting and comedy talents in this video, featuring the relatively unknown sport of Extreme Hand Slapping.)

Only slightly less well-known is his musical talent. Kirby has several albums to his credit, including the recently released Elm Tree.

As if those aren’t enough gifts for one man, Kirby is also blessed with extra olafactory perception (EOP). His latest blog post will leave you realizing how most of us go through life skimming the surface of what this planet has to offer.

Dive deep with Kirby’s sense of smell here.

Words of Piano Man Wisdom

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Billy JoelSuppose you had not one, but two personal interactions with one of the ultimate living rock legends of all time, none other than the Piano Man himself, Billy Joel.

This was the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that cinematographer Rod Santiano was able to experience as part of the documentary crew that made “Last Play at Shea.” Rod has been sharing via a series of fun posts on his blog his interactions with several rock and other superstars that were interviewed for the documentary, culminating with the interview with Mr. Joel.

So what life-changing words of wisdom did he impart? You won’t want to miss them here in Rod’s latest blog post.

Chilling with Sir Paul

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Sir PaulYes, Rod’s a friend. And yes, he very kindly helped me tidy up this blog with a spiffy new banner and font choices (thanks, Rod). But those are not the reasons his blog is the first to be featured three times on MDB.

It’s simply because he currently has the coolest blog in Mormon daddy-dom.

It’s celebrity week on his blog, “Notes from the Set,” as he is recapping the interviews he shot for the Billy Joel documentary, Last Play at Shea.

As you can imagine, a documentary on Billy Joel is likely to open some doors that are normally not easy to open. In addition to his interview of Billy and Sting, which were his first two blog postings featured on this site, this week’s posts on his site have included recaps of interviews he shot of Steven Tyler, Garth Brooks, Roger Daltrey, and everybody’s favorite Uptown Girl, Christie Brinkley.

But probably my favorite of the bunch so far is the post where he recaps the time he flew from Billy’s concert at Shea on Wednesday to London, interviewed Sir Paul on Thursday, the flew back to NYC on Friday to continue shooting Billy’s concerts. Rough life, I tell ya. Read all about his Sir Paul encounter here.

And as cool as that was, be sure to read how he topped off the London trip at the end of his post.

Michael on Being Sent Home Early from His M2B:)

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m2bhappyI’ve been a big fan of Michael McLean for a long time. His work in music and storytelling reaches deep within the LDS community, but has also touched many hearts beyond.

More than that, he has worked hard to successfully forge a path through the business side of a market that is small and not overwhelmingly famous for easily parting with its pennies. And, on top of that, I have found him to be a gracious mentor to those who are likewise trying forge their own paths.

One of his most recent projects was a book and CD called “Mission to be Happy,” which he dubbed M2B:). As part of the project, he spent a year blogging nearly daily on the things that made him happy in a real-time test of the notion that whether we look for the good or the bad in life, we will find it. This would be a brave undertaking for anyone, but especially for someone who, as he openly admits, has struggled with clinical depression.

I had the opportunity to read several of his blog entries over the course of the year. In true Michael fashion, these were thoughtful, funny, and often poignant essays of things both small and large that happened to him along the journey of 2010. As one who struggles to blog weekly, I can only imagine what it would take to sustain that level of effort throughout a year.

The year ended, and the blog has been silent for the past couple of months since. Then yesterday, Michael blogged again. In his latest post, we get a glimpse of the toll the effort exacted, especially given that the project hasn’t been exactly embraced in the marketplace.

You can sense the disappointment. But no bitterness. Ups and downs are part of this business. Granted, there is much to be learned from what Michael has accomplished with his “ups,” but maybe even more from how he gets back up after his “downs.”

Read his latest blog post here.