Te’o No. 5

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Editor’s Note: On Jan. 16, 2013, word started spreading that there may be more (or maybe less would be a better way to put it) to the Manti Te’o story than was previously reported. While details are still emerging, we will keep this story in our archives as is, but please keep in mind that, while Seti’s post was written in good faith and with the information that was available at the time, it appears the facts are not as reported.

While following football was a passion in my earlier years, it’s steadily become less so in recent years. And with the lackluster performance of my teams this year, plus a busy fall schedule, football has made barely a blip on my radar this season.

But one story that recently came through the stream in the middle of the MDB home page caught my eye. It appeared on the blog of Seti Matua, former editor of PolyInsider.com and MDBer on his blog called Le Folauga (The Journey).

The post highlighted Manti Te’o, a linebacker at Notre Dame. I would suspect that many people already know at least a little bit about Manti’s story. But for those of us who have been living under a football rock this season, Seti’s post is a feel-good, overcoming heartbreak story worth crawling out for. You also don’t want to miss the video Seti links at the bottom of his post.

It is a moving testimony of a young man who had the courage to follow a prompting that didn’t make sense to him at first, but in retrospect makes all the sense in the world (and then some). And, believe or not, it’s not just because he is now in contention for the Heisman Trophy.

Even if you’re not much of a football fan, read Seti’s post, Why I Would Vote for Manti.

The Father-Son Journey

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It’s clear Seti Matua loves this journey called life. Indeed, he’s chronicling his in a blog called Le Folauga, Samoan for The Journey.

You’ll find a lot of passion on his blog about everything from his strong feelings about adults who screw up sports for their kids (he’s against that) to diaper bag thievery (he’s against that, too).

In addition to being a rugby coach, Seti is a former editor for a number of publications and is now a free-lance writer. He writes frequently on sports as well as the Pacific Islander/Polynesian community. He especially loves to write about when those two worlds combine to produce the likes of NFL stars Troy Polamalu, Haloti Ngata, Jonathan Fanene, Ray Feinga, Rey Maualuga and Aaron Francisco.

But perhaps nowhere is his passion more evident than in his love of his family, as evidenced by this post about his recent experience interviewing his boys in Father-Son Time Gets to the Heart of the Matter.

Seti and his wife, Jennifer, live in Utah, where they are raising their five sons. Welcome to MDB, Seti.

How Manly Men Roll

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For guys like (ahem) me who struggle with even the most basic items on the honey do list (with Lefty Lucy, is it my left or the thing’s left?) or can only bowl in the three figures with the help of gutter bumpers, the Art of Manliness is a godsend.

The blog, dedicated to uncovering the lost art of being a man, is authored by husband and wife team Brett and Kate McKay. It features articles to help us be better husbands, better fathers, and better men. Oh, and better bowlers. It has become hugely successful, suggesting perhaps that those of us feeling the need to shore up our manliness from time to time may not be as alone as we feel.

So, before you embarrass yourself again on the lanes, be sure to visit Brett’s post, How to Bowl a Strike. (Apparently, there are techniques involved. Who knew?) If you like what you see, you’ll find the website to be a treasure trove of information on how to be a manlier man. (Apparently, there are techniques for that, too!)

The McKays live in Tulsa, OK. After graduating with a BA in Letters, Brett went on to pursue his lifelong goal of going to law school. He started the blog while attending the University of Tulsa College of Law, as something fun to do in his spare time (law school is pretty famous for offering its students plenty of that). The website really took off, and today he juggles working on the blog with working for a legal research company.

MDB welcomes the McKays.

Why Baseball Matters

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baseballIt’s spring. A time when a young man’s fancy turns to baseball, a passion that bewilders many. And in times as troubling as these, it seems baseball’s lure grows stronger.

For those who may not fully appreciate the attraction this game holds, but are willing to at least seek first to understand, I offer the following three items:

1. The James Earl Jones Speech. It occurs in the pivotal moments of the best movie of all time, “Field of Dreams.” It’s two minutes, and it’s available here.

2. Randy Newman’s “The Natural” Soundtrack. Just listening to this gives you magical powers to hit a tiny orb out of the park.

3. Jeff Westover’s Two Recent Baseball Posts. Baseball has a way of dissolving the years between the generations, a dissolve that was sorely tested by the Barry Bonds/Mark McGwire steroid scandal years. In Rethinking Roger Maris, Jeffrey takes us back to the original home run leader. And in Head Games, Jeff reminds us of that pitcher-hitter duel that takes place at least six times each inning.

Jeff writes from time to time on baseball, and I confess I’m always a sucker for a good baseball post. The only flaw in his analysis, as far as I can see, is an inexplicable fondness for the Giants. But for the sake of baseball, let’s set aside those differences and just enjoy.

Looking Beyond the Jersey

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Few things in memory have generated more scrutiny of Mormon life than the Brandon Davies situation, and the Mormon dad blogosphere was not immune. Gordon Smith may be a law professor at BYU who has taught courses at universities in Australia, China, England, Finland, France, Germany, and Hong Kong, but like pretty much every LDS man in this hemisphere, he has observed this situation unfold with interest.

(For those who may have been incommunicado for the past week or so, Brandon Davies is the BYU basketball player who was suspended for an honor code violation late in the season just as the team appeared to be a contender for a spot at the national title.)

But he boils down in five short paragraphs what it seems many others are feeling. Read his take on the Brandon Davies situation here.

Westover on Being a Cards Fan in 2011

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besbolWith everything that’s going on in the world, sometimes you just need a good baseball post. (Especially since come this fall, it may be the only major sport left to follow for those of us in the U.S.)

Thanks to Jeff Westover for supplying this sweet diversion courtesy of America’s favorite pastime.

When he’s not blogging about baseball, Jeff is “a new media journalist” based in Salt Lake City, Utah. He’s a career counselor, human resource manager, business executive and entrepeneur who freelances on topics ranging from business to parenting (something he’s well qualified for, as the dad of seven children).

Read his latest post here.