Without a Safety Net

Photo by Thomas Gibbard. Creative Commons license. Some rights reserved.

Photo by Thomas Gibbard. Creative Commons license. Some rights reserved.

I never took a class in playwriting or theatre history at BYU from Eric Samuelson, but I was still sad to hear that he recently had to take early medical retirement because of an illness, an incurable muscular degenerative disease called polymyositis. While I don’t know him well, I know he has inspired a generation of writers to do their best work.

If there is a plus side to this bad news, it’s that Eric has found time for blogging, and his posts are as insightful as they are entertaining. You’d think his posts would be weighty matters, and some of them are. But pop culture frequently makes an appearance. He even recently blogged about this season of American Idol, a show he loves, which surprises me, but in a good way. (Sample: “My wife and I think Steven Tyler, in that rock star regalia, looks like the scariest old woman in the nursing home.”)

He tackles theological matters with equal alacrity. Here’s his recent take on baptisms for the dead, a concept peculiar to our faith and one that has attracted a lot of negative attention lately. Eric thinks we should do a better job at defending the practice. (He calls it “the most remarkable theological innovation of any Christian church of the 19th century,” and makes a compelling case.)

He is a frequent participant in SLAM, a 24-hour festival. Here’s how he describes it:

What happens is, we show up at the theater at 8 on a Friday night, are given headshots and resumes for three actors (sometimes up to five, but this year, three), are shown a set, and, most of the time, are also given a title.  We then have to write a ten minute play using those actors, that set, and that title, a hard copy for which we deliver the next morning at 9.  The actors rehearse all day, and perform, off-book, that night, at 8. 

He recounts the full experience in a recent post, Playwriting Without a Safety Net.

It is with pleasure that we welcome Eric, a father of four who makes his home in the Utah County area, to MDB, and look forward to following his blog, Mormon Iconoclast.

 

When She Pops the Question

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Not that question. The question before that question. The question that can pave or pre-empt the way to the big question.

“What are you going to be when you grow up?”

Once that question was an opportunity to let your imagination soar with limitless possibilities, before the grown-up would chuckle at your answer and send you on our way with a pat on your head. But to the recently returned missionary on a first date, that question is loaded.

Fortunately, there is a new blog on the scene to help recently returned missionaries not only answer that question, but to help with the overall transition back to civilian life. It’s called the RMTC, or Returned Missionary Training Center, and it makes perfect sense. We have plowed the wisdom of generations of missionary work into our Missionary Training Center, but when our youth return home after their service, we give them a handshake and wish them all the best.

In addition to articles on how to RM (for example, this post on why we’re a mess for awhile after our missions), the blog includes a list of stuff the returning missionaries missed while they were gone (royal weddings, Adele, etc.).

While many of those who participate here at MDB are beyond being considered a recently returned missionary, we still want to help spread the word about the RMTC blog in an effort to help them get those fine young men to the point where they are candidates for Mormon dads, and therefore participants of MDB.

Thanks to Aaron Quist, one of the “faculty” members at the RMTC, for bringing this blog to our attention. Aaron is a practicing attorney. He and his wife are raising two children in California.

Enjoy Aaron’s post, The Pre-Astronaut RM.

The Friday Five • Episode 2

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So much good stuff – not enough days. Hence, The Friday Five:


Beat the Rush. Although most of us here have probably already tied the knot, we may have kids who could benefit from this latest help from Mormon Life Hackers, especially in light of one of the major themes of this past General Conference. That’s right, we’re talking about helping prepare for the tsunami of weddings coming this summer.

Tevya Washburn lays it all out in Use Google To Help Plan A Wedding.


Dress Warmer. You have to cut the guy some slack; he just moved from California, not to mention the fact that he had spent the night in the E.R. with his daughter.

So cinematographer Rod Santiano wasn’t entirely prepared for the elements as he shot BYU’s spring football game. Read the chilling account in Note to Self: Dress Warmer!


Watching You. With seven children from ages 13 to just a few days old, Ken Craig finds that the Deniro/Stiller father/son “watching you” roles are reversed in his house. His kids are watching his every move, especially his flaws.

Ken’s always engaging posts have found a home in a new blog sure to be of interest to MDB readers, Modern Mormon Men. Read Ken’s post, A Legacy in Progress, then enjoy what else this “manly mommy blog” has to offer.


30 Things. When it comes to listening to the prophet’s voice, Jamie Huston and his family don’t mess around. As they listen to General Conference, they make a list of direct instructions Pres. Monson gives, and make those priorities in their family.

This General Conference, Jamie came up with a list of 30 such priorities, which he kindly shares with us all on his blog, Gently Hew Stone. Read President Monson’s Marching Orders.


Not Always Our Fault. Relationship expert Dr. Elia fields a question from a male reader who perceives from Dr. Elia’s past columns a pattern of innocent women versus men who are the bad guys. The reader poses the question of whether this perception matches Dr. Elia’s experience in his work.

While it is not surprising that there are issues that are typically “men’s issues,” you may be relieved to know that men don’t have a corner on all the issues. Read Dr. Elia’s response, Relationship Issues Are Not Always the Man’s Fault.

Don’t Worry Sweetheart, Got it Covered!

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Nothing builds appreciation for our wives like having them go out of state for a few days, leaving us to hold down the fort.

But leave it to Christopher Clark, theater professor and father of five, to figure out how to build appreciation among his wife for the need to come home. Quickly, if at all possible.

Enjoy this post from Mr. Mom, Dad’s in Charge!

Finally: A Definitive Beauty Scale

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statueIf you find the concept of “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” to be a tiresome cop out, you’ll appreciate a recent post by Jamie Huston, who has figured out what appears to be a propriety algorithm for quantifying relative beauty. His “T-scale” makes it possible to precisely determine how an In-and-Out burger rates relative to, for example, the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel or Amy Whinehouse.

Jamie is the author of the blog Gently Hew Stone, named partly because it resembles the author’s name (I had to work a bit to see it), but more for its reference to something Michelangelo said while carving his statue of David. Michelangelo envisioned the finished statue inside the block of raw marble and just chiseled away the pieces that weren’t part of it.

“Writing this blog is like that: I picture myself sitting before a hunk of raw possibilities with this keyboard as my chisel, and my labor of love is to reveal the beautiful ideas inside,” writes Jamie.

Jamie, who lives in his native city of Las Vegas with his wife and five children, teaches American Literature Honors at Centennial High School as well as Composition and World Literature at UNLV. In the church, he currently serves as a counsellor in the stake Sunday School presidency.

Read Jamie’s post on quantifying beauty, The T-Scale.

What Big Lies You Tell

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Red Riding HoodThose of us on MormonDaddyBlogs mostly know Christopher Clark for his mad lip-sync skills, but this theater professor by day is a dad by the rest of the time.

While watching American Idol with his kids, one of those ubiquitous commercials for Red Riding Hood, the movie version from the director of Twilight (did we mention it was from the director of Twilight?) came on, provoking the following cute exchange with his two boys, Miles and Owen. Read it here.

Lent Mormon Style

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lentBraden Bell earned his Ph.D. in educational theater from NYU. He now teaches theatre and music at a private school in the Nashville area, where he lives with his wife and five children.

Being one of the few LDS people in the area frequently results in pitying looks from those who can’t imagine life without many of the things that we Mormons make a practice of living without.

But once a year, the tables turn. Get Dr. Bell’s fun take on lent Mormon-style here.

Things We May Not Know About Dr. Clark

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clarkChristopher Clark is a Ph.D. and a university professor who has distinguished himself on a national level as an innovative director of Shakespeare’s work. His love of all things Bard is even evidenced in the names of his children, Miles, Owen, Phoebe, Hugh and Margaret.

So you may not expect that he could lip-sync perfectly to Mariah Carey’s “Bye Bye.”

But he can.

A lot of Mormon dads may claim they can, but Dr. Clark proves it. His latest blog post includes not just a clip of him working Mariah’s song, but songs from Kanye and other artists as well.

You mustn’t go another day without at least checking out his “Bye Bye” here.